Our life is full of desires and expectations. As humans, we do have lots of aspirations. We seek to achieve everything that could give us excellence and some special identity. In order to get them all we are running everyday and trying hard to make us a better person and an achiever. However, there are so many creative stuffs around us too. But, is it possible to do them all at once?
We watch people involved in so many interesting activities like- Dancing, singing, writing, playing, e.t.c. As holders of such an exceptional and wonderful mind, even we get up enthusiastically to try and taste these interesting stuffs. Then at some part of our minds, we may disagree. We also take into consideration the fact that " Am I really supposed to do this? What about my real goal? " And at the end of the day, we conclude that we are not meant for all of these. I am sure that many of you will disagree. But there is also one more divine truth that we differ in terms of our capability. Few people enjoy all the primary (related to GOAL) things as well as secondary (creativity) things at once, yet succeed towards the goal. But, there some people also in the category where they have to give more input towards the primary things to succeed. Ultimately they are not left with time to enjoy the creativity that world offers. It doesn't mean they don't want to enjoy them. But yes, they remain bound to constraints and can't break them. Such people realize voids in their life and many times get disheartened. They feel that their life has become boring and joyless. Moreover, people around them promote such feelings by saying things.
The point that I want to make is - we can experience all the interesting things of the World. But there is a definite time for everything. We must not feel guilt about being boring or not enjoying them. The period which we are going through deserves our hard work towards our GOAL rather than blindly enjoying and trying to taste all the attractions. At some point of time we must realize what we want to be and what is the primary requirement to achieve it.
This was all about making proper choices.
Several times we come across situations in our life when it seems "We are losing everything". Even being stuck to primary activities and working hard, we could not deliver appropriately. The feeling becomes worse when we start comparing ourselves with the winners of the previous battle which we also fought and lost. Friends, we must never make comparisons. Let's us not care what others our doing daily in their lives. However, taking an inspiration costs nothing. But, let's be grown up friends. We can't keep thinking of the failure and torturing ourselves. Life must go on. Fix your own desires in life and make it very clear in your mind about the primary things needed to achieve them. You will be at least satisfied about the fact that you were walking on the right track. Your decision will benefit only you and no one else.
START living for yourself first and your GOALS. When you begin to execute the desired algorithms, only then you can think of living for others as well. Do not let yourself carried away by failures. Start again and make yourself better.
We watch people involved in so many interesting activities like- Dancing, singing, writing, playing, e.t.c. As holders of such an exceptional and wonderful mind, even we get up enthusiastically to try and taste these interesting stuffs. Then at some part of our minds, we may disagree. We also take into consideration the fact that " Am I really supposed to do this? What about my real goal? " And at the end of the day, we conclude that we are not meant for all of these. I am sure that many of you will disagree. But there is also one more divine truth that we differ in terms of our capability. Few people enjoy all the primary (related to GOAL) things as well as secondary (creativity) things at once, yet succeed towards the goal. But, there some people also in the category where they have to give more input towards the primary things to succeed. Ultimately they are not left with time to enjoy the creativity that world offers. It doesn't mean they don't want to enjoy them. But yes, they remain bound to constraints and can't break them. Such people realize voids in their life and many times get disheartened. They feel that their life has become boring and joyless. Moreover, people around them promote such feelings by saying things.
The point that I want to make is - we can experience all the interesting things of the World. But there is a definite time for everything. We must not feel guilt about being boring or not enjoying them. The period which we are going through deserves our hard work towards our GOAL rather than blindly enjoying and trying to taste all the attractions. At some point of time we must realize what we want to be and what is the primary requirement to achieve it.
This was all about making proper choices.
Several times we come across situations in our life when it seems "We are losing everything". Even being stuck to primary activities and working hard, we could not deliver appropriately. The feeling becomes worse when we start comparing ourselves with the winners of the previous battle which we also fought and lost. Friends, we must never make comparisons. Let's us not care what others our doing daily in their lives. However, taking an inspiration costs nothing. But, let's be grown up friends. We can't keep thinking of the failure and torturing ourselves. Life must go on. Fix your own desires in life and make it very clear in your mind about the primary things needed to achieve them. You will be at least satisfied about the fact that you were walking on the right track. Your decision will benefit only you and no one else.
START living for yourself first and your GOALS. When you begin to execute the desired algorithms, only then you can think of living for others as well. Do not let yourself carried away by failures. Start again and make yourself better.
Your Success and Failure is in your hand
Very nicely written!!
ReplyDeleteAnd don't worry about other interesting things, after you achieve your goal, there will be many years to enjoy them to the fullest.
You are doing something that very few people do, i.e. writing blogs. It is one of your special qualities. (A very important aspect of an interview.)
Sourabh, you do have a distinct and clear-cut thinking. Really it was worth traversing this part of your blog!
ReplyDeleteThanx so much Ravi...
ReplyDeleteThis was really a special comment.
Have a good life.
-Saurabh Kejriwal
nice one..!!
ReplyDeleteThanx manisha
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